F.A.Q.

How do you pronounce your name? What does it mean?

Rococo is pronounced ‘Row - Co-Co’ in the traditional context or ‘RuhCoco’ in more casual conversation (hear it out loud in this quick video). People also call me Rocky or Coco, which I find charming. I chose my name after taking an art history class in college. ‘Rococo’ was a French painting and design movement that you may recognize by its distinct use of ornate gold leaf, pastel pinks and blues, and decorative accents. It was also known for its theatrically, drama, and lightheartedness, and as a movement which embraced frivolity and hedonistic pleasure. Many art theorists and historians didn’t (and still don’t) respect Rococo as a formal art movement because it challenged aesthetic traditions found in highly regarded places like Versailles, along with those related to power held by rulers of the time. I couldn’t think of anything better to describe my quirky, soft, luxurious, and subversive values and personality still today!

What’s your real name? Where do you live?

I use my preformer name like Hollywood stars use pseudonyms to protect their privacy. My legal name is irrelevant during our time together, and invasive personal questions like these make me feel uncomfortable and unsafe. My pseudonym is a ‘real’ a version of me as real as the name I use in my personal life. Please acknowledge and respect the risks I take to meet you and remember that they are far greater than yours.

Are you really a porn-star? How do I know you’re real?

I have dabbled in various kinds of porn since 2014. Although I am currently focusing on creating my own independent content on Onlyfans and ManyVids, my mainstream work can be found on major sites such as Evil Angel, Porn Fidelity, and Abby Winters, and may serve as proof of my spunky character and beauty in the motion. Although I enjoy the art of performing, my personality is more relatable and casual during bookings. You may also read my real-time thoughts, see my selfies, and get quarterly updates from me on Twitter, Instagram, and Substack.

Do you offer ___XYZ___ Experience? I’m worried my company won’t entertain you.

My participation in any act on camera is a professional preformance done on a set with other actors, and is not necessarily representative of activities I participate in (or even prefer) outside of that context. I believe that everyone has something valuable and unique to offer, so I am rarely bored! Every session is a bespoke experience, with different aspects of my personality being brought out by the person I am spending time with. I do not choose to express myself based on reductive acronyms, planned scripts, or film tropes. That being said, I may be interested in accomodating specific intentions of yours if they pique my interest and are communicated directly before our session (but please ask before sharing in detail).

Would you ever consider meeting for free, or off-the-clock? I want to know the real you.

My clients are respectful people who understand the value of my time and labor. Pricing that labor allows me to set time aside from my busy life to meet, while also supporting my personal endeavors in the process. When booking, you’re investing into access to my life, my company, and the details that I am happy to share when I’m comfortable. Clients who book longer sessions, Travel sessions, or recurring Arrangements are offered the opportunity to do a deep dive with me. On the flip side, shorter sessions are more finite and limited in the amount that we can connect, experience, and share. Regardless, it is distasteful and belittling to ask for or expect free services from laborers of any profession.

Do I have to screen?

Absolutely. I refuse to compromise on my screening practices, ever. Any concern about your privacy or discretion is secondary to my immediate need for safety and well-being. If you’re not comfortable with my screening protocol, I respectfully recommend that you reach out to another provider that you’re more compatible with instead.

I’ve never done this before, will you see me?

Yes, I am happy to work with newbies! You will be required to screen with real-world personal information to verify my safety and comfort around meeting. I’ll be happy to guide you after you pass my screening protocol.

Do you see ____(Black, mature, Muslim, trans)____ clients?

I see clients of all races, genders, sexualities, religions, ages, dis/abilities, and sizes. I genuinely believe that everyone is beautiful in their own unique way, and I love having the opportunity to meet people from varied and diverse backgrounds. Any specific concerns that may effect our session should be shared with me in advance, but will not negatively effect how I relate to you.

How can you ensure my privacy?

I use only encrypted email and a secured phone line, and prefer to communicate over text using the free and encrypted Signal messaging app. Coincidentally, if you are using an open ended email service like Yahoo or Gmail to contact me, you’re putting both of us at risk, and I would highly suggest switching to Protonmail or a similiarly encrypted email service. (Please see this EFF surveillance guide if you are concerned about privacy and digital hygiene for more tips.) I consider my clients’ personal information privileged and would would never share any part of it due to disagreement, personal differences or beliefs, proper cancellations, or other minor issues. I only consider sharing client personal information in situations where my safety or well-being has been seriously threatened, violated, or compromised by said client or their associated parties (including instances of public outing, violence, threats, manipulation, theft, harassment, or abuse of any kind). If you’re not a violent or abusive client, I can assure you that I have taken every possible measure to protect your privacy as well as my own. I am here because I want to spend time with you, and continue to do so in the future. Any compromise to your safety would also be a compromise to mine.

Why haven’t you responded to my emails or text messages?

I have a full and bustling life and am frequently away from my phone and emails. I am a low volume provider (even more-so during my semi-hiatus), but receive a high volume of inquires. Therefore, during screening and scheduling, I prioritize concise messages with as much relevant information included upfront as possible. Please do not send me more than one follow-up email if you’re waiting for a response, and make sure to check your spam folder in case my reply has been hiding. If I want to move forward with meeting you, I will contact you when I have the opportunity.

Do you do same-day bookings?

Pre-screened clients are more than welcome to reach out for same-day or short notice appointments via text only. Pre-bookings are highly encouraged, and many clients book a week or more in advance due to my incredibly limited availability.

I’m in ____(City)_____. Can you come to me? Any travel plans?

Due to my health condition and Minneapolis commitments, touring is very infrequent. I do, however, consider Fly Me To You dates for extended sessions of one full day or longer. If you’re not ready for a full day but would like me to come to you, consider Sponsoring A Tour (I’m particularly fond of SF, NYC, DC, NOLA, Miami, Portland, and Chicago). Please do not email me asking when I will visit your city if you are not ready to commit to the aforementioned, as it slows down my response time to legitimate booking inquiries. All planned tour dates are posted on my Travel page and sent out in my email Newsletter, so you can always stay in the loop.

What is your Deposit Policy?

All bookings require a $100+ deposit that I may accept through digital and physical payment methods. I do not consider a session confirmed or reserved on my calendar until I have received the deposit and it has been fully processed. The initial deposit is non-refundable to ensure your readiness to commit to a booking when planning, and to compensate me for my time spent screening, communicating, and scheduling. Unreliable scheduling or frequent cancellations may result in a higher deposit requirement for future bookings. If for some reason I need to cancel the session, the deposit will be returned to you in full.

How do digital payments work? Can I tip you or send a gift?

I offer various payment method options including mobile apps, e-gift cards, crypto, and physical payments by mail. The available options may vary based on the standing of our relationship and the timing of our booking. During booking, please inquire about available payment methods during as they do sometimes change. I will communicate when and how to send the payment at that time. The inability to follow my instructions when sending payments can permanently compromise my access to an entire service, which has a deeply negatively impacton my income and livelihood. Do not send me payments before I have instructed you to do so, and never include notes with inappropriate or suggestive text or emojis. Surprise tips and gifts are deeply appreciated, but please send me an email or text if you would like to include a detail or note.

I’m going to be late, can you wait for me?

I run a professional business and expect you to respect my time and labor as such. If you are running late, please let me know as soon as possible. I have a busy personal schedule that often can not accomodate last minute changes. Those who cannot be accomodated will be considered a no-show, and will be required to pay a 100% session cancellation fee. If I am able to accomodate your untimely arrival, the session will end as it was scheduled, at my full rate. What you miss is your loss, so please plan accordingly.

We’re in public during a session, how should I behave?

I’m all yours when we’re together; as your arm-candy at the bar, holding hands over a cozy dinner, or coyly sneaking glances from across the gallery. How we engage is up to you. Unless otherwise requested, I will default to a generally modest demeanour out of respect for your discretion.

Can we party? Want to get wasted?

I’m fine with light social drinking, but please keep it light so we can both enjoy our time together safely! Although I do not judge those who partake in using illegal substances, do not bring any illegal substances into any space I share with you. I can not accept the risk that you inevitably cause me when you do this in my presence. Any client who comes to a session with illegal drugs on their persons or who comes to a session high/ intoxicated/ under the influence will be asked to leave and will not be offered a refund.

What is your Cancellation Policy?

I have a strict cancellation policy due to my incredibly limited availability and need for a predictable schedule. If you need to cancel or reschedule our session with less than 5 days notice, I require a 25% (of the total) cancellation fee. Cancellations of less than 3 days notice require a 50% cancellation fee. Sessions cancelled with less than 24 hours notice require a 100% cancellation fee. Due to past abuses of my compassionate nature, this policy applies to all cancellations, regardless of circumstance. I may discontinue seeing anyone who has problems following through with scheduling commitments as it greatly impacts my livelihood and well-being.

You’re chronically ill and had to cancel?

Unfortunately, I have a full-time chronic illness that has deeply impacted my life for the past 16 years. My health requires a lot of time, doctors visits, self advocating and research, rotating medicinal treatments, self care, and rest to manage. Often times, I feel greatful to live a wonderfully fulfilling life, but as a highly sensitive and high-risk individual, I still have flares-ups that knock me out completely. Sometimes this also prevents me from living the stable and reliable life I’d like to. While I apologize that my health can be unpredictable and that I may need to reschedule our session due to a sudden flare-up, you can be sure that when I am with you I will be fully present, energized, and engaged. Please be assured that I’m doing all that I can to take care of myself in every way possible to fulfill our shared commitments, and would never disrespect your time if it was not essential for my health and well-being. If me needing to cancel or reschedule a session for health reasons would be deeply upsetting or otherwise unacceptable to you, I respectfully recommend you pursue another provider that can better meet your needs instead.

I saw you somewhere outside of our session! Can I say hello?

Due to concerns of outing, safety, and respect for my personal space and boundaries, please refrain from saying hello in public.

Can I use you as a reference to see another provider?

I am more than happy to provide references for my clients. I do appreciate a heads-up before being listed as a reference, as well as a tip or gift to thank me for my time spent responding, although it is by no means required. I consent to my clients sharing my email address, website or ad link, and session dates with the provider they are screening with. I do not consent to my phone number, client email exchanges, session details, or other privileged information being shared in any way.